NEVER ask for a breakup.
it's not okay to think that you will be hurting him/her if remain tgthr, because it will hurt so much more far more than you can ever imagine.
and this is not being great, giving up your r/s just like that and thinking that you are doing what you can to protect him/her.
this is called selfish and self-centred. and that you love yourself more.
dun have the mindset that it will be okay in the long-term.
it will never be okay.
the impact left will never be erased.
it will warped the person's personality and mindset and behavior in ways unimaginable.
i believe that when you jump into a r/s,
you already made preparation to give time, give effort, give love in order to make everything work out.
nothing can stop you from working it out.
everything can be solved if you will.
if you need more freedom, tell him/her.
if you need more private time, tell him/her.
whatever you need, just talk about it and compromise.
i rmb i saw this line somewhere in some books/shows i read/watched before:
compromising is when you give me two options you can live with and i choose the one that i can live with.
and i came to find this line so damn true.
sigh, i hope i did not cause you any more hurt and that i truly helped.
whatever i did, i did it to protect you. and i know you know that.
i hope you will be okay.
you are the only one who can help yourself in this kinda situation.
the best i can do is to be with you.
remember that i love you. :)
btw look at tay yin ji that sucker commenting on my prev post below:
SUCKERTAY JIU SHI SUCKERTAY D:
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