growing up =/= losing yourself

突然有个领悟：

每个人都有自己的优缺点。
如果有人不喜欢你，那可能是因为对方无法包容你某些缺点。
这世上，谁没有问题呢？没有谁是完美的。
就算大多数的人不喜欢你的缺点，那又如何？
但若那些人对你来说很重要，改变一点又如何？或许你能够因此而找到真正的自己，更好的自己。
有些事不必想的那么极端，退一步真的能够海阔天空也说不定。
包容一点也很好啊，对不对？
人，难道就是那么自作孽吗？
凡事看开一点，想少一点，自然而然就会开朗多，快乐多。




people change, and i'm not spared as well.
i may have changed for the better or worse, depending on your point of view.
but i feel that i became better, and i'm glad about that.

sometimes, when people tell you that you've changed, it might not necessarily means that they don't know or don't understand you.
because most of the times, people outside of the situation sees everything in a clearer light, so they may actually know more than you thought so.
seeing from different people's perspectives gave me more understanding towards human nature and mankind.
to be honest, i felt really happy as to them trusting me enough to tell me about it.
yes i'm a silly kid, but i truly truly want everyone to be happy.
i tried to explain for them, but all is naught but i know at least i tried.
human beings are definitely complicated.
people who change, i am trying to adapt to the new you.
give me some time.
i cannot ensure that i will like you as much as before your change, but i will definitely still accept you as a friend.
tbh, i got really hurt, but i'm slowly putting it behind me.
let's just keep our fingers crossed and hope for the better from now on.