dropped by here to share a LINK with everyone which mrtay shared with me this morning/afternoon. :):)

okay it is an article about maintaining a healthy relationship and it sets me thinking. and one particular line enlightened me:

Relationships fail when individuals hold the belief that: if he/she loves me, he/she should know what to do or what to say. I don’t have to tell him/her what I’m feeling or thinking.

this is so true. i kept thinking that if my bf is the one, he should have telepathy with me and know that what i am thinking/feeling without me saying anything. HAHAHA.
this thinking is retarded because we are not edward cullens, which in the other words means that we are not mind readers. hahahaha.

was telling mrtay that i feel this way and he told me he does too which is like WAHHH O.O cause all along i always thought that i am the only weird one with this mindset. hahahaha! hmmm just to set you thinking and here are some pennies for your thoughts. /sprinkles many pennies everywhere

soooooo somebody wants to be more honest alr. kekeke.

okayy anywayy nowadays have been thinking alot more on life. i have no idea why. reflecting so much on life. and zhengjie also shared with me alot of his life's perspectives which he only wants me to think more with different points of view and not agree with him. :)
i like the way he tells me that he dun want me to agree with him and he only wants to set me thinking. SOMETIMES im really that kind who would just agree and forgo my own set of thinkings. :(
but eventually everyone thinks differently and it is not possible for one to agree entirely with the other. you can only show the other party your perspectives and it will be up to him/her to grasp the meaning within.

okayyy now i should get to slp soon there are too many things for me to do tml hahahaha. nights everyone. :)